My Philosophy

With so many options and opinions surrounding birth, abortion, and postpartum care, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the pressure to make the “right” choice. Many folks face unsolicited advice or horror stories from the moment they announce their pregnancy or consider their reproductive choices. The more I’ve spoken with people experiencing these moments, the more I’ve come to understand their frustration and fear of whether they’re making the right decision. At the end of the day, there is no “right way” to make decisions about your reproductive health, there’s only what’s right for you!

That’s why compassionate, nonjudgmental support is so essential. People deserve care that honors their individual needs and values, especially in moments when they may feel uncertain or isolated. But too often, access to that kind of support depends on what someone can afford. The framing of economic accessibility is important but it’s not the whole story. I recognize that people are more than their financial reality and we don't need to be ashamed to talk about money. Everyone deserves to have someone in their corner supporting them throughout their reproductive and postpartum journeys. This fuels my desire to charge the way that I do.

For many doulas, this work is their full-time job. In order for them to serve the community they live in, having enough of a living wage is critical. I’m able to charge the way that I do because this is not my full-time job. I view this work as an opportunity to build and support my village, offering guidance, encouragement, and assistance to the percentage of people who may not be able to afford support.