Introducing Siblings to Baby

Bringing your newborn to a home with an older sibling waiting is an exciting experience. To alleviate any potential jealousy or frustration due to a lack of attention, it’s great to begin preparing the older sibling prior to having your baby. 

Involve in Baby Prep 

Ask for their opinions about the nursery decor, baby names, clothing, or special toys. Any opportunity for your child to feel included sets them up for a smoother transition and offers them a sense of control. 

Establish Expectations 

Prepare older siblings by telling them about what to expect when they meet their baby brother or sister. Describe what babies are like: “our baby will be tiny,” “our baby may be sleepy when you meet them,” “our baby might cry and that’s okay.” Discuss the importance of hand-washing and demonstrate how to hold the baby using a doll. There are also great books that you can read with your child to help explain what life will look like with a new sibling….

Sibling Gift 

Some families like to have their children “exchange gifts.” Maybe the older child gives their new baby a handmade card, and the baby gives their older sibling a new baby doll. 

The initial introduction

Many experts suggest when introducing your newborn to their siblings to do so in a neutral space with the baby on a blanket or in their bassinet, instead of being held by a parent. This way your hands are free to give hugs, love, and reassurance to your other children during the first meeting. 

Set Aside One-on-One Time

Aim to have special one-on-one time with your older child each day for at least 10-15 minutes without younger siblings, screens, or other distractions. 

Here are a few great books for further reading that offer more advice and information about introducing your newborn to your other children….